It is very well known that flowers presented as gifts has been an age-old tradition, that has truly stood the test of time. There’s a certain joy when it comes to flowers-both in the giving and in the receiving. But did you know there’s a certain etiquette to gifting flowers? Here is a simple guide on how to present flowers beautifully and meaningfully with key take aways and what to be mindful of.
Occasion
Make sure the flowers reflect the occasion, for instance bold and vibrant daisies and sunflowers are ideal for birthdays and celebrations, classic red roses (to no one’s surprise) is associated with romance and muted tones like Lillie’s are used for formal occasions like sympathy or offering condolences.
Floriography
Hailing back to the genteel women of the 19th-century Victorian era, Floriography, or the ‘language of flowers’, holds that every flower carries its own special meaning. This could be based on their type, colour, qualities, floral arrangements and even the way they were presented or received!
Cultural sensitivity
What’s considered a lovely gesture in one culture may be straight-up inappropriate in another! In many Asian cultures, white flowers, especially lilies and chrysanthemums, are associated with solemn contexts like funerals and in mourning. In certain other cultures, even numbers of flowers are used for funerals, while odd numbers are preferred for happier settings. So when gifting internationally or outside your background, take a moment to learn their traditions and symbolism.
Personal preferences and thoughtful gestures
Knowing what flowers and colors your recipient is drawn to is a major win, as it shows how much care and consideration was put into your choice. Be mindful of allergies and strong fragrances when gifting flowers. A handwritten note can transform your gift into something deeply meaningful. If feasible, consider delivering them yourself, upright and blooms facing the recipient. Smiling with eye contact is also highly recommended!
Presentation
First impressions have a lasting impact, so have your flowers presented well. Top tip – source fresh and in-season blooms from well-known florists. Rule out plastic wrapping and opt for natural materials like jute or fabric wraps for a natural, personal feel. If you’re tilting towards an elevated look, flower boxes or glass vessels add an elegant touch.
In summary
Do’s
- Choose fresh seasonal flowers from reputed florists.
- Match colours and floral types to align with the recipient’s specific taste.
- Consider the language of flowers and different flower symbolism.
- Be mindful of allergies.
- Respect cultures and traditions.
Don’t
- Give wilted or old flowers.
- Flowers with thorns or damage.
- Plastic wrappings and low-grade packaging.
Whether you are celebrating a milestone, offering comfort or simply brightening someone’s day, the way you present flowers can make all the difference. We hope this article gave you a better understanding of flower etiquette. When it comes to quality, however, nothing compares to Darcey Flowers. With Darcey, you’re not just choosing beautiful blooms — you’re choosing joy beyond flowers.